More fear than harm – By a Valdorien
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- More fear than harm – By a Valdorien

More fear than harm – By a Valdorien
More fear than harm – By a Valdorien
For me, the shock was perhaps a bit less severe than for others upon learning I had prostate cancer, as my father had been diagnosed at 55. However, at 53 and being particularly fit, I had to concentrate intensely to cross the Island of Montreal after hearing the dreaded word “cancer.” Back in my region of Abitibi, I made an appointment with a urologist, having already decided and discussed my treatment choice with my partner.
The prostatectomy was performed a month and a half later. The procedure went well without any complications. To be honest, I had a lot of anticipation and fears before the surgery. A small incision in the lower abdomen, two tubes coming out of my body, and a bit of anesthesia buzz awaited me upon waking. A few hours later, walking in the corridor, and a total of three nights in the hospital. It was more fear than harm.
The psychological aspect of returning home was the most challenging part. The presence of the urinary catheter for 17 days was one thing, but being forced to do nothing during this finally springtime of the year was a shock for my hyperactive self. Not being able to run with my dog or do yard work was very difficult. After the catheter was removed, I was afraid of incontinence. On the contrary, nothing came out during the first 4 hours after the catheter was removed. No panic, you need to drink, relax, and things will be fine.
Returning to work after a month (office) and using fewer and fewer pads. After six weeks, my regular activities resumed. I was finally able to run with my dog. There was still a bit of incontinence, especially when straining, sneezing, and exercising. Let’s stay zen in the face of this temporary new parameter. Oh, I forgot to mention that I did Kegel exercises before the catheter removal and continued CHUM exercises for several weeks (8) afterward.
Finally, I cannot end this testimony without mentioning the promptness of the Quebec healthcare system’s response. It took exactly six weeks between my diagnosis and the surgery. Everything went very well. A special thank you to the urology team at Centre Hospitalier Rouyn-Noranda, the nurses, and aides who displayed exceptional professionalism.
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